I believe this program could change your life, but don’t just take my word for it…
I had been working with Pam prior to Bridges and Bonds and she had already made a huge difference in my life. I was curious about doing group work and this was a fantastic experience. Not only have I learned even more from Pam, but by listening to all the other moms and their stories, one of my biggest comforts is realizing that I am not alone. The tools I have learned through working with Pam have helped me with my daughters but also with my spouse. Because of my work schedule, I couldn’t participate during the actual sessions, but I scheduled time to watch each episode on replay and never felt behind. The many workbooks are also so valuable. I highly recommend this program for any mom who loves her daughter and wants to build a closer relationship. Time can heal but not without work.
JUNE
I started following Pam Tronson on Instagram, received her newsletters, and really related to what she was saying. I am tremendously thankful I joined the program, “Bridges and Bonds.” It had been a long year since my daughter and I had spoken. I would not have successfully approached mending our relationship without learning the valuable lessons from Pam and having the genuine support from the other participants. Pam is an excellent, knowledgeable and kind teacher, so real with her experiences. She truly helped me find a path towards reconciliation with my daughter. I highly recommend this program to help anyone struggling with their relationship with adult children.
JOAN
Where do I begin? This has been the most amazing journey over the past 10 weeks of Bridges & Bonds with Pam! My youngest daughter (age 25) and I have had a tumultuous relationship since her childhood and we were on the verge of estrangement. Spending this time with Pam and being able to hear and share with other mothers going though similar or difficult times with their daughters has been life changing. It made me realize I am not alone. I have applied so much of what I learned and have already had positive outcomes with my daughter. I know the road is long but I truly feel like we are headed in the right direction and I feel much more equipped to handle any bumps and turns in our road ahead. My outlook about our situation has changed and I no longer feel defeated, sad and helpless. I’m so thankful for this experience. It is worth every penny and moment you will invest.
MICHELLE
Discovering Pam on Instagram turned out to be the most important step in my quest to have a loving relationship with my adult daughter, who seemed to have so much negativity and resentment towards me. Joining Bridges and Bonds was the ultimate gift I could give myself. Pam taught us to be less defensive and more curious. Gather data so we could begin to see things from our daughter’s perspective. Listen and support the other women who might have had different experiences but still felt the same pain. Unlike other groups or online therapists, this was never about collectively bashing our daughters or being victims. Rather, Pam shared her experiences and incredible insight in ways so we could work on better serving ourselves and thus improve our capacity to be helpful and understanding with our daughters. As a believer in a Benevolent Creator, I know Pam was the answer to my prayers. She truly cares and means it when she says “Sending love from me to you!”
LISA
I came into this program confused and shattered. My daughter has chosen to be estranged from me for 5 years now and I've likely felt every emotion possible. I had been telling a story that had given me comfort but had also built a wall that I had never been aware of. Working with Pam and this amazing group of women has made me realize that I don't need to hide and as a result, I've changed my story. I let go of the shame I once felt and now, instead of it being about me, I can see what I had missed before. Together we worked on a letter that is an authentic representation of me and I how I really feel and I was able to express my clearer understanding of the situation. I'm no longer afraid to own my mistakes, without being defensive and trying to explain myself. For anybody who might be feeling that they are lost in their situation I would advise them to take the same journey as you will not be disappointed.
NANCY
I am grateful to Pam and her Bridges and Bonds Coaching Program for helping me through some difficult challenges in my relationships with my adult children after many years of marriage to someone with narcissistic traits. Pam has helped me to be less hard on myself and to have my own back. I am in a much better place since taking Bridges and Bonds and I highly recommend it.
LINDA
The struggle of parenting adult daughters is real. Their growing up and moving on is a grief. A loss. And normal. This group is helping me navigate the new relationship. And to feel supported and less alone has been amazing.
SALLY
The other day, my son commented on how much better I was in dealing with his sisters. And it’s true. The work I have done with Pam has changed me on many different levels and I feel much more capable in handling whatever comes my way. My husband has also noticed the difference in me. We have 2 weddings this year along with some major life changes, yet somehow I feel calm and confident. I have also found a big difference in how I am dealing with my own mother (85). This work has brought me peace! Bridges and Bonds is worth the time and investment - it has truly had an impact on who I am. Us moms are deserving of this kind of guidance, and the community of other women has been a fantastic part of the experience.
LAUREN